Boring Subconscious
Me: "Oof, that was stupid of me." Ally: "...why do you say that?" Me: "What? It was a stupid thing to do. Doesn't mean I think I'm stupid." Ally: "Yeah, but that's not good to say about yourself."…
I'm just writing stuff, just maybe you'll read it.
Me: "Oof, that was stupid of me." Ally: "...why do you say that?" Me: "What? It was a stupid thing to do. Doesn't mean I think I'm stupid." Ally: "Yeah, but that's not good to say about yourself."…
"How do I know if what I'm doing is right? How do I know she won't leave?" He's three dates into something he already knew he was going to ruin. I told him he doesn't know. Nobody does. She could…
Dating is... fun. It's one of my favorite things to talk about in coaching. Everything else about you shows up in it. It's also so core to being human. To love, and to be loved. When I started dating…
Most people don't answer the question. That's usually the answer.
"I was talking to chatgpt about the situation and..." I hear it every week now. I've done it too. Then I noticed what people are actually asking it.
He's been "about to launch" for a year. I've had that plan. It felt like progress. It wasn't.
For years I have gotten one strange... compliment. "You've got big golden retriever energy." I took it as a joke at first. Heard it enough times that I started asking why. Some said the goofiness.…